Again this comes from my musings
in recent times. I have learnt that God orchestrates events in our lives and
allows us to go through things and have experiences because that is His
principal way of teaching us valuable life lessons. Hidden within the fabric
and intricate connections of our daily experiences are great lessons that we
need to learn in order to change, get better and thus move to our next levels
in life. You see, what qualifies us for our next level is our preparedness for
that next level. Some of the blessings we crave and pray for, we are unable to
access because character-wise, we cannot handle them. If we get there now, in
our present state, we will not be able to sustain the lifting because we
haven't grown enough to be able to handle the demands of that level. So you
see, daily, God allows us to have experiences in our interactions with people.
The bulk of these experiences are anything but pleasant. Misunderstandings,
misrepresentations, uncooperativeness, outright scheming against us sometimes,
not to mention blatant threats and the wearisome realization that you are not
liked, accepted or wanted, due to no fault of yours in many cases. Sounds
familiar? These represent the bulk of our daily experiences in the work place,
church, community, family, school etc. Well, the sooner you realized that what
times like this call for is introspection on your part, the better for you.
DON'T WASTE YOUR EXPERIENCES! Learn from then.
No matter how 'right' you are
and how wrong the others are, there is a crucial lesson for you to learn in
from that experience. Crucial because once you have learnt a lesson or two from
it, you are no longer the same! You have become a changed and better person.
And guess what? You have passed that level and have qualified for the next! But
you see, most times what we do is find faults and shift blames. For us, it’s
always the other person's fault; never ours! It’s hardly ever our
responsibility! Friends, God teaches us lessons from experiences, but most
times we don't see them because they come wrapped up in PEOPLE! Some of whom we
can't stand and don't like! Only when we learn the lessons and pass the tests
do we qualify for lifting. It’s the test of strength of character which is
absolutely indispensable in our quest for promotions and liftings. So this week
and henceforth, look at the experiences that come your way differently. Look
beyond the person(s) involved and don't personalize issues! As hard as it may
be, ask yourself, 'what lesson can I learn from this situation? In what ways
did I contribute, albeit remotely to this problem? What could I have done
differently that may have brought about a different outcome? What would I do
differently if in a similar situation in the future? Honestly, if we adopt this
approach genuinely, we will all keep learning and growing and changing and
getting better by the day; and oh wouldn't our world just become a better place
with more grown-ups! This is not about who is right or wrong in any given
situation. It is about who is ready to pay the price for a new lease of life.
Please make your experiences count for good this week and always, by learning
life lessons from them thereby becoming a person of strong character who will
scale new heights and remain upwardly mobile because you have what it takes to
last on that high level.
Great week ahead!
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