4. The spice that enhances marital flavour is
SEXUAL INTIMACY.
God ordained sex for the confines of marriage chiefly for the
pleasure of couples and to serve as a means of strengthening the bond between
them. Hebrews 13:4, 4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but
whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. It is crucial for couples to not allow anything tamper with this
aspect of their marriage and to also see to it that each person makes the
satisfaction of their spouse their ultimate goal. The marriage bed should never be used to settle scores or punish
each other, by withholding sex from them.
Settle issues that arise in your relationship and communicate
freely with each other concerning sexual intimacy between the two of you. Married couples should also beware of acting out sexual
fantasies that they have in their minds and forcing their partners to engage in
anything they find uncomfortable. Again, each one should make their partner's
satisfaction their goal. And whatever you do, talk freely about sex in your
marriage, both of you together. Do not assume anything.
If you need enlightenment from a christian perspective on sex in
marriage there are great books written by christian authors who are also
medical doctors and sex therapists. They are professionals and they are
believers. Some examples are authors like Dr. Dag Heward-Mills, Dr. Doug Weiss,
Ed Wheat etc.
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